by Okinawa Soba

Question by Moi: Body image & self esteem just entirely crushed plus no sex at all?

Everybody used to say I was too thin. I got laid off & started gaining weight from not being so active & then I got breast implants (gift from my fiance) and please don't ask why because I don't even know why I did it. Since the surgery I've been putting on weight & I think I've gained about 20 or 25 lbs but I won't get on the scale. That coupled with the huge boobs that I hate & the scars is just destroying me. I'm no longer thin & now I have massive boobs.

My fiance & I rarely have sex. Maybe once every 4 months or so. He says he's never been a sexual person & it has ruined his past relationships. I always had to initiate sex. Now that I've gained weight & have scars from the surgery I don't want to have sex with him either. I was the only one keeping it alive & now I'm not trying.

We're not even married yet & I feel like an undesirable pig. Actually I felt undesirable before b/c he never wants to have sex & my past relationships were practically based on it. Thoughts?




Best answer:

Answer by friendlystranger65
Get away from him, right now. Find someone who likes you, someone you can talk to. Life is too short to spend it with someone you can't stand.

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